Women complaining that sex seem too short or too long but what is normal?
Many women and men claim that their sex life is not what it is cracked up to be. Some women and men say that the sex doesn’t last long enough, and others say that it’s just too much for a long amount of time. I remember hearing men at work expressing how their wives wanted sex all the time, and when they leave work they are just too exhausted to do anything. However, when these men could actually get their motors running, within two minutes the engine was turned off. Their wives were furious and complained that they were not being satisfied which lead to more infidelities in marriages, and miserable unsatisfied couples who would rather stay unsatisfied then to tell their partners. Many want to know what is considered a good run in the bedroom. It was mentioned that “According to the new study “Canadian and American Sex Therapists’ Perceptions of Normal and Abnormal Ejaculatory Latencies: How Long Should Intercourse Last?” adequate coitus lasts anywhere from three to seven minutes, not including the Pledge of Allegiance.
This data, from all the normal people who see therapists for sexual problems, corresponds closely to earlier studies, which put the average at five to seven minutes. (We can safely blame the two-minute discrepancy on the Canadians.) “Very few people have intercourse per se [Latin for by thrust] that goes longer than 12 minutes,” says sex therapist Barry W. McCarthy. Essentially, ejaculatory inhibition, which is also called “delayed orgasm” or “junkie orgasm,” has less to do with actual time than an inability to ejaculate when you’d like. And premature ejaculation, which is also called “rapid ejaculation” or “your ejaculation,” refers to intercourse that lasts less than a minute or two”( esquire.com,2016).
To have a more satisfying sex life try slowing things down in the bedroom, Sex isn’t just sticking it in, it’s about pleasing each person. Foreplay has been a great rule of mine when it comes to the bedroom. Try to do things that satisfy him or her before you decide to take care of your own needs. Play with the woman’s breast kiss her gently in places that get her going. Ladies! Put something sexy on that visually gets your man’s attention; rub the spot that your man cannot resist, Men! rub the vagina the way that the woman likes and once that woman is at the urge of climax, it’s okay then for you to proceed to stick that **** in and give her that hard pound she has needed all week. In all, it’s nothing wrong with doing a little extra in the bedroom sometimes. This ensures that everyone is happy. There is nothing better than a happy couple with a wonderful sex life.
How Long Should Sex Last?! (2015). Retrieved February 01, 2016, from http://www.esquire.com/lifestyle/sex/a5943/average-sex-time-0709/